Shepherd and sheep. At this stage we feel provided for,
watched over, cared about. But beyond that, a sheep has little by way of
true intimacy with the Shepherd. They are altogether different
creatures.
Master and servant. Many, many believers are stuck in this
stage, where they are committed to obey, but the relationship is mostly
about receiving orders and instructions and carrying them out.
Father and child. This is certainly more intimate than being
a servant; children get the run of the house, they get to climb on
Daddy's lap. These fortunate souls understand God's fatherly love and
care for them. They feel "at home" with God.
Friends. This stage actually opens up a deeper level of
intimacy as we walk together with God, companions in a shared mission.
We know what's on his heart; he knows what's on ours. There is a
maturity and intimacy to the relationship.
Bridegroom and bride (lovers). Here, the words of the Song o£
Songs could also describe our spiritual intimacy, our union and oneness
with God. Madame Guyon wrote, "I love God far more than the most
affectionate lover among men loves his earthly attachment."
Where would you put your relationship with God? Why did you choose
that "level"? Has it always been that way?
(The Journey of Desire Journal & Guidebook, 150)
